The New Year is around the corner, and we start thinking about new goals, plans, starting anew, and the inevitable – all the goals that we set and did not accomplish. We feel guilty, and at our worst, as failures. So we take the pen and paper and start all over again, sometimes repeating the same goals – promising ourselves: “this year for sure …” I’ve been there.
Setting goals and naming things that we want to accomplish should not be a painful or shameful process. It should be a guide, a road map of what we want to do and where we want to end up. But goals should be realistic and measurable. Just saying: “I want to lose weight” is not enough. Instead, go thru a series of questions like: how many pounds, how, when will I schedule the how, and most important – why? Why do I want to lose the weight? Your motivator is your best weapon. If you don’t know your why, most likely, another year will pass, with no results. This formula should be applied to every goal or project that you plan for the New Year.
Take a planner or your PC and schedule in your goals, daily, weekly, or however you figured out that you will work at them throughout the entire year. If you have a reminder every day of your goal schedule, then it is likely that you will work at them with more enthusiasm and determination. Set an automatic reminder in your PC. The list of goals written on December 31st is not enough – it has to be planned.
Start thinking realistically of the things that you want to accomplish this coming year; make your list, but don’t stop there – map out a schedule to make them real. At the end of the year, even if some of them did not work out, most will – and you will feel better and more productive. I find that by doing this, by the end of the year I see that I have crossed out a good part of my list. Some goals are still there, but I am a few steps closer to them, and I can always continue to work on them.
One thing that I have observed in some people if that they take their goals as written in stone and will not deviate, even when there is a need for some modification. Many times a goal is missed just because of this, which is ironic. In addition, goals should be taken as a guide to where we want to be and not as a horse blinder that will prevent us to enjoy the scenery in the process. It is good to set some goals but it is also good to leave some room for flexibility, change, and modification.
Happy New Year Planning!