This may seem an odd topic, but it is one of the most annoying questions I get asked, directly or indirectly by people I know, and by strangers. It is asked as soon as the topic of my writing or books comes up. Besides annoying, I find it intrusive, and a lack of good manners. It comes in many forms, but the root of the question is the same. And the person’s goal is to know if I make money as a writer and how much. Here are some examples of the same question.
- Are you making a living at it?
- How much money you make?
- Is it easy; do you sell a lot of books?
- How are you doing with it?
- I see a lot of people publishing books; how easy is that, is there money in it?
- How long does it take to make it?
- What else you do to pay the bills?
- One can’t survive on that, right?
- I hear the book business is not doing to well; all those book stores closing, right?
- Oh, do you make good money?
I can go on an on giving you examples of the same question worded directly or indirectly. When I think about it, the people who ask this question do not understand what writing entails, and most likely, they have a paycheck mentality. I bet that for most writers who are serious and take their craft to heart, money is the last thing in their minds when they are writing. Yes, we all want to make a living at doing the thing we love most; this is how it should be. We should all make a living this way, doing the things we love and are passionate about, but most people don’t. Most people don’t understand when someone’s passion goes beyond monetary compensation, or even fame/recognition. I bet that the majority of dedicated writers don’t care about money or fame; it is a byproduct of their love and effort while writing. However, to be fair to all sides, there are those who write with the hopes of becoming e-book millionaires or gain fame and recognition in the field. Besides, there is nothing wrong about making lots of money and being blessed doing what you love and serving people. To me, writing goes beyond monetary compensation and fame (as a primary goal), and while I hope to one day do exponentially marvelous, that does not mean that I would love the craft more for it, or less if I don’t.
So by now, you are probably thinking what my answer is when I am asked. It usually goes along these lines –
- I am very happy doing what I do, how about you?
- I am lucky and blessed to work doing what I love.
- I don’t price my passions; do you?
- The day money becomes my story, that day I will stop writing.
- I let the faeries worry about that part, while my Muse works on the most important one.
- I am well.
And so along those lines it goes, usually the probing stops there. So feel free to use those lines if like me, you get annoyed by the question. If you paint, are an artist, or live your passion, most likely, you will be asked the question many times. Some people don’t mind it, some people do, and it has nothing to do with how much money you make. Feel free to comment on the topic, how do you feel about the subject of money and writing?