I came across this audio put into a video on YouTube and shared by youtuber PSNy2kUK, and what caught my attention was that the narrator is from 1956, Earl Nightingale. The same principles apply today. Think and enjoy.
Super Moon 2013
Watercolors Friday – Inspirational Blog
Today, I want to share an awesome blog that many of you might know, but the more the merrier, and it is the blog of Jack Canfield, and you can find it here . It is a blog full of inspirational and motivational energy, and tons of good tips to live a more positive and happy life. Through videos, articles and goodies, Jack Canfield manages to awaken readers.
If you are not familiar with this blog, take a look; you won’t be disappointed, and you will gain so much by reading or watching some of his videos. It is truly a treasure, and one to be shared, so if you love it, keep sharing! And since today is Watercolors Friday, let’s celebrate Mr. Canfield, and Happy Solstice and Watercolors Friday to YOU! Don’t forget to watch the Super Moon tomorrow, the brightest and biggest moon of this year. I will try to get some pics to share with you 🙂
On Writers and Money
This may seem an odd topic, but it is one of the most annoying questions I get asked, directly or indirectly by people I know, and by strangers. It is asked as soon as the topic of my writing or books comes up. Besides annoying, I find it intrusive, and a lack of good manners. It comes in many forms, but the root of the question is the same. And the person’s goal is to know if I make money as a writer and how much. Here are some examples of the same question.
- Are you making a living at it?
- How much money you make?
- Is it easy; do you sell a lot of books?
- How are you doing with it?
- I see a lot of people publishing books; how easy is that, is there money in it?
- How long does it take to make it?
- What else you do to pay the bills?
- One can’t survive on that, right?
- I hear the book business is not doing to well; all those book stores closing, right?
- Oh, do you make good money?
I can go on an on giving you examples of the same question worded directly or indirectly. When I think about it, the people who ask this question do not understand what writing entails, and most likely, they have a paycheck mentality. I bet that for most writers who are serious and take their craft to heart, money is the last thing in their minds when they are writing. Yes, we all want to make a living at doing the thing we love most; this is how it should be. We should all make a living this way, doing the things we love and are passionate about, but most people don’t. Most people don’t understand when someone’s passion goes beyond monetary compensation, or even fame/recognition. I bet that the majority of dedicated writers don’t care about money or fame; it is a byproduct of their love and effort while writing. However, to be fair to all sides, there are those who write with the hopes of becoming e-book millionaires or gain fame and recognition in the field. Besides, there is nothing wrong about making lots of money and being blessed doing what you love and serving people. To me, writing goes beyond monetary compensation and fame (as a primary goal), and while I hope to one day do exponentially marvelous, that does not mean that I would love the craft more for it, or less if I don’t.
So by now, you are probably thinking what my answer is when I am asked. It usually goes along these lines –
- I am very happy doing what I do, how about you?
- I am lucky and blessed to work doing what I love.
- I don’t price my passions; do you?
- The day money becomes my story, that day I will stop writing.
- I let the faeries worry about that part, while my Muse works on the most important one.
- I am well.
And so along those lines it goes, usually the probing stops there. So feel free to use those lines if like me, you get annoyed by the question. If you paint, are an artist, or live your passion, most likely, you will be asked the question many times. Some people don’t mind it, some people do, and it has nothing to do with how much money you make. Feel free to comment on the topic, how do you feel about the subject of money and writing?
Moonlit Valley Trivia
Ever wondered what makes writers tick? That is a question with as many answers as there are writers. Well, the doll in the picture, a vintage Shirley Temple doll is featured in Moonlit Valley, in chapter The Key. The doll holds a secret, and this is the first piece of trivia – what is the secret?
If you read Moonlit Valley, and would like to get a free paperback copy for you or a friend, you can play along and answer the following trivia questions. The first person to email me with the correct answers wins the copy. You can email your answers to piny@theowlbookandcandle.com .
Here are the questions. Please, if you are playing along, answer them in the email, not here, just to avoid spoilers 🙂 Thanks. Contest ends on July 31st (2013) or when there is a winner (whatever comes first).
- What is the secret/clue inside the doll?
- What is Rose and Jeremy’s street address?
- How many steps to the library?
- What is the library’s street address?
- What is the name of the funeral parlor?
- What is the name of the Lake?
- What is the name of Dr. Angelou’s receptionist?
- What is the name of the egg market/store near Rose and Jeremy’s home?
- What is Olga Gartier’s ladies club/society called?
- Name the paintings at the library.
There you have it, the 10 trivia questions to win a copy of Moonlit Valley. The first reader to email me with the correct answers gets it 🙂 Good luck and have fun playing!
Watercolors Friday – On Writing
Today, I want to share with you a few of my favorite writing websites, and to celebrate the book that I think made the most sense on learning about writing. That book is On Writing by Stephen King. To me, it is the best book I have read on the topic. Why is that? I feel that way because,
- The approach is simple, honest, sincere, and experienced, and as it promises, it goes to the point, bypassing the bullshit – at least that is the vibe I got.
- It shows you besides telling you.
- It gives you hope.
- It scares you.
- It motivates you.
- It takes you to a different level of understanding of the craft.
- It is unlike all the other writing books I have read.
- It puzzled me, and “un-puzzled” me.
- It does not preach what it does not know.
- It shows you the complexity and simplicity of writing via the author’s experience and the examples he gives to illustrate some points.
- Stephen King wrote it.
I recommend this book to every aspiring writer and every writer, even if you have a few novels published. It takes you to a different writing reality.
Now, let me share a few author/writing websites that I like, and have found very helpful. Some I may have mentioned on earlier posts.
- Stephen King – http://www.stephenking.com/index.html
- J.K. Rowling – http://www.jkrowling.com/
- Sarah Ban Breathnach – Simple Abundance – http://www.simpleabundance.com/index.html
- Michael Hyatt – Intentional Leadership – http://michaelhyatt.com/
- Alli (Alliance of Independent Authors) – http://selfpublishingadvice.org/blog/
- Indie Author Guide – http://indieauthorguide.com/
- The Book Designer – http://www.thebookdesigner.com/
- The Creative Penn – http://www.thecreativepenn.com/
- Author Maria Murnane’s blog – http://mariamurnane.com/blog/
- Claire Cook – http://www.clairecook.com/
These are just a few of the sites I enjoy and find very helpful/informative to aspiring writers. Today we celebrate Stephen King, and these awesome sites.
Happy Watercolors Friday everyone!
Ghost Words
The more I think about our kind, I see the complexity of our being. This morning for example, I went for my early walk, and saw this complexity unfolding. I am a hello, good morning person, so when I am walking and happen to see another of my species, I usually say the words. Many times, I get some kind of response – a smile, a gesture of a head tilted sideways with a subtle up movement, a hello or a good morning. Other times, I get nothing, a stern look, or a head down, avoiding eye contact. This has puzzled me for so long – why do people do this? Even animals, acknowledge other species, and theirs. This morning, I said Good Morning to a woman who was cutting some flowers, and who politely answered with a short and quick good morning, the kind with the absence of a smile. Later on, I said good morning to a man who had come out of his home and was ready to collect his garbage cans. He looked at me, as if I had just insulted him, and said nothing. As I walked further, I spotted a crossing guard who was walking to reach her morning post. I smiled, but instead met with the quick head down to avoid eye contact. Later on, I encountered two neighbors driving to their destination flashing smiles and waving. Thank God I’d just reached home and that was the last image I had on my mind – my happy neighbors – because I was beginning to feel a bit uninspired and yes, puzzled, about why people behave that way so early in the morning. I understand when people have had a rotten day, but so early?
It is true that we are living in a fast technologically “challenged?” society, and that we seem to “need more hours” to keep up the pace. However, we seem to have forgotten good manners while we spend the 24 hours we have. It seems to me that two very important words/phrases are almost nonexistent these days – GOOD MORNING (or Hello) and THANK YOU.
It may be my perception, but I seem to hear them less these days. It was very important to say Thank You or Good Morning, not too long ago, although it may seem another century, or as if these words have been relegated to retail pleasantries status. It puzzles me when a door is held or opened for someone, something is given, or someone takes the time or effort to do something for someone, even for a stranger, and these words are never said. As if the person at the other end was a ghost.
What has happened to us? Why are these words less important today than a few decades ago? I am not sure if the speed we live our lives has to do anything with it, or is it that our values have changed, and good manners are not important any more? Sometimes I get more thank you’s from automated systems/services or machinery than from human beings. It is not that I want to be thanked all the time, but more of a concern about “where is our kind headed.” A world where everything is taken for granted? One without gratitude? One where machines seem to have better manners than humans? Or are we there?
We all have our slip-offs and moments of “zombie awareness,” but when our hurried steps/lives become more significant than the generous acts of others (who happen to have the same 24 hours that we have), maybe it is time to stop the purposeless frenzy and think about how long has it been since we said the Ghost Words. By the way, Thank You for reading this.
Watercolors Friday – Celebrating 3 Books
For today’s post, I want to celebrate three of my favorite books. What is so special about them? Well, they are my favorites, that is, if I had to pick three of all the ones that I love. Why those three? I asked myself the same question, and I was surprised by the answer. These books have touched my soul in a different way, have made me ponder, think, dream, smile, doubt, question, and offered comfort besides entertainment. It wasn’t until I questioned why the gap in years in between my three favorites that I understood the reason. Those books found me at important stages of my life. I wish I had my copies here to post pictures of them but they are packed in a trailer with all my moving stuff, so I will provide public domain pictures for the first two, instead. Here they are,
THE LION, THE WITCH, AND THE WARDROBE by C.S. Lewis
This book came to my life when I was a kid and full of wonder, dreaming of worlds different from mine. I lived this book through its pages.
JONATHAN LIVINGSTON SEAGULL by Richard Bach
This book found me in my teenage years, when my mind was full of dreams, questioned everything around me, and wanted to break away from the pack. I am lucky to own a signed copy. I still love this book as much, if not more, than when I read it the first time, and I have read it several times. I can picture myself in the golden years, savoring a cup of coffee, holding this book on my lap. I still need to read it a few more times throughout my journey – every time I find something new.
THE GRIEVERS by Marc Schuster
This is actually a picture of my copy. It is a recent book, and one that found me at another important stage of my life. Just like the other two books, it made me ponder, question, think some more, question some more, doubt, smile, and dive deep inside myself, as I encountered twists and turns (my twists and turns) throughout its pages.
There you have it, three books that have been to me more than a casual read, and today I want to celebrate those. I don’t know which will be the next book that will take me to the same level of introspection and delight, or when, but I am certainly excited about the possibility.
To C.S. Lewis, Richard Bach, and Marc Schuster – Happy Watercolors Friday!
Dichotomy: Learning and Doing
Learning and doing are two different animals as far as I am concerned, that is, when I think about my writing journey. We all start with that yearning and passion for writing, followed by another desire – publishing our works. You set sail to learn as much as you can about the craft; and if you are like me, you spend years learning the path. This is when it gets interesting, at least for me.
I learned much before deciding to publish my novels; however, I have to admit that I did not do as I learned. Much of what I read was tailored to traditional publishing. It wasn’t until the last couple of years that self publishing became a more acceptable vehicle for writers. England still struggles a bit with the concept, for what I have read, not as welcoming as the USA; however, getting better. When I was thinking about publishing my work, what I was learning seemed to go against my grain; however, I kept learning and informing myself as much as I could – learning the entire process, and writing, until I got to the point that I was ready to decide, I mean, ready to send that first query, that first manuscript, which somehow, did not feel right to me. So I sent one query, and it wasn’t until I physically did it, that I realized that I did not want to take that path. At least, now I was going somewhere, although I was glad for the time spent learning. Soon, I realized that I was yearning for the Indie lifestyle, to self-publish and be there (participant) the entire process, responsible for every bit of it – despite the immense task that it presented. I realized that I wanted to become an indie author. I set sails again, learning as much as I could about the process. In my heart, I knew that it was the path I wanted to take; however, the self-publishing frenzy that was going on, added to the still negative talk about self-publishing, kept me waiting, unable to dive into it.
I learned the process, but I was unable to dive into the vast sea. I questioned my indecision – it wasn’t until I understood my fear of being branded as an indie, of becoming an abomination, a heretic in the publishing arena, even when I knew that it was the right match for my working style, my ethics, and my personality. For some reason, the information that I had consumed earlier, had led me to believe that once I became an indie author, there was not going back – the damage was done, permanently. How had I become to believe such absurd idea? Understanding where my worry originated made it easy to take the plunge, and so I did. This year I published Moonlit Valley and Ramblings of the Spirit (book 1 of The Dinorah Chronicles), which are available via Amazon. By the end of this year I expect to publish The Book of Sharon (book 2 in the chronicles). Once I decided to become what my heart was telling me, the rest was easy.
I had entered the indie world, lonely at times, however exciting and challenging. I branded myself as such, and after learning about many indie authors who have gone back to publishing the traditional way (offered contracts) or traditionally published authors who have become indie authors (setting themselves free), I realized that what you learn and what you do sometimes becomes a dichotomy, for whatever reasons. To each, its own.
Now, what about heavy promoting and marketing? The learning continues, and so the doing, which seems to differ, once more. Although, I will do some promoting and marketing of my novels, I won’t fully dive deep until I feel that I have at least 5-7 novels under my belt. There is a reason for it, and it does not translate in total disregard of my work or marketing it. Instead, it responds to my desire of building a brand, developing it, and tie everything together. To me, it seems easier to heavily market your work when there is more of it, exposed, than to do it when there is only a few (1-2) samples out. It makes sense to me. I rather use that energy (because believe me, promo/marketing requires tons of work, effort, and commitment) to write more novels, build my brand, so later I can dedicate the right time to it, despite the fact that the information I consume tells me that you have to market your novels before releasing them, but I am talking here about a more in-depth marketing, which will require more of my time and commitment as well as a more detailed business/marketing plan.
I have set a goal of reaching my magic number in the next two and a half years. I will be working hard to reach that number. In the mean time, the learning, the writing, building a brand, and the creation of a marketing plan continues. I will blog about this topic in future posts.
Celebrating Parker – Watercolors Friday
Cupid must have shot me with a Parker arrow because I have been in love with Parker pens for a long time. Last evening, I was reminiscing with my aunt about a Parker 51 fountain pen she had; one that I drooled every time I saw. It was black and silver. As a kid, I used to wait until she was not around and open her chest of drawers, the second drawer, just to glanced at the pen, and if I was particularly adventurous that day, I would quickly take it out, and admired it, for as long as I could. Yes, I sat down on the floor, at eye level with that second drawer, and took long whiffs at the Parker 51. My aunt did not remember the pen, that is, until I gave her details on what else was in that drawer – I was five years old at the time. I don’t own the model because I am trying to find one just like the one my aunt had, and the ones I have seen are above my price range, or in bad shape. But I continue the quest to find the love of my life – the mint Parker 51 at an affordable price that many other souls covet as well.
My love affair with writing instruments has been since I can remember. My mother tells me stories of how I used to steal my Dad’s pens when he came to visit me. The scar under my chin was made by me playing with a pen when I was a toddler (one that I took without permission) and falling, this causing the pen to deeply cut the area under my chin. A future writer was branded that day, I guess.
Parker has made writing instruments for a long time. Today, I want to celebrate a website that is a true labor of love, and a rich source of information for Parker pens lovers. The website is ParkerCollector.com and you can get there by clicking the link. It is an amazing website created by a Parker collector, Tony Fischier. You will find the history of almost every Parker pen, amazing pictures, and information about the company as well, and other awesome bits of information. If you are a Parker lover, this site will be paradise. You will love this website for sure; I encourage you to visit this amazing site.
My love for writing instruments go beyond pens, it stretches to vintage office equipment as well, but that is another post. I will leave you with pictures of my old dip pens collection (although these are not Parker), including one which I think is from the early 1900’s – also known as a pearl desk holder, made by H.B. Smith Pen Company. I hope you enjoy the pictures.
This is a vintage Parker set, known as Jotter Pardner Set – the closest to my memory of the Parker 51 in looks, although this is a ballpoint pen and mechanical pencil set.
Happy Watercolors Friday!










